Everyday we are influenced, everyday by the people around us the events that happen to us and all the situations that come into our daily lives. That’s just the way it is the question though is this. How are your influencing skills and are you even aware of how everything you do some how some where is influencing some one else. So if you know it or not you have the power to influence people, so why not learn those skills and get your influencing powers to work for you.
Some people are hardcore in the way they influence people meaning they usually try and bully or push people in to doing things for them. Ever have someone influence you that way? Of course you have we all have and what happens when we encounter people like that we remember that and try to avoid those people or hold grudges against them for it. Spending our time either avoiding these people or if we have no choice giving them the least amount of energy from us to what ever task they ask of us.
Now what about the people who are the opposite of the pushy bully types? Now we have hopefully all encountered people like this as well. Notice that these people seem to get things done in a way as if they did not even ask like it was some sort of a magic spell that they put on you. These people seem to get things done and always have a certain energy around them that is contagious to the people around them. You find yourself wanting to meet these people half way and sometime even go out of your way to help them.
Imagine tweaking your skills to influence people to the point where people are coming up to you and asking you how they can help you. Thankfully it is a skill that can be learned and improved upon at anytime if your willing to work on your attitudes and behaviors. Not what you think or how you feel but how you present those things and how the people around you perceive you. Learning how to read people’s perception of you and figuring out how to effect that perception is a big part of influencing people or working that finesse 
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